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HOW DO YOU DAD

Are you living life by rules you never chose—or by the values that truly matter to you? The ARCH Coaching 2×2 Grid helps you see where you stand and how coaching can move you forward. Too often, people drift through routines, guided by expectations set by others, never realizing they have the power to write their own story.

This page introduces the choice at the heart of personal growth:

Continue following rules you didn’t create—stuck in patterns of pressure and passivity.

Or step into life by your rules—aligned with your strengths, values, and purpose.

Coaching bridges that gap. A skilled coach helps you identify blind spots, gain clarity, and build intentional actions that move you into the quadrant where confidence and direction meet.

Whether you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or simply ready for more, the Coaching Grid reveals the path to living with purpose. Every small step reshapes your future—and you don’t have to take those steps alone.

Stop drifting. Start building. Coaching makes the difference.

 

The Dad Decisions That Define You

Every dad makes choices—sometimes on purpose, sometimes on autopilot.

On one side: parenting from outside pressure what others think, what you saw growing up, what’s “expected.”

On the other: parenting from conviction—who you are, what you value, and how you want to show up for your kids.

Most dads never stop to ask which path they’re on. This quick quiz helps you see the pattern, name your style, and take the next step in becoming the dad you want to be.

Take the quiz and find out: which dad profile are you?

How Do You Dad? Find Out in Just 3–4 Minutes

Measure Intentionality and Awareness to discover if you’re a Default Dad, Performer Dad, Instinctive Dad, or Architect Dad.

Every dad parents with patterns. See yours clearly and take the next step with confidence.
  • 24 simple “A vs. B” questions about everyday dad moments
  • Instant placement into one of the 4 How Do You Dad Profiles
  • Personalized growth insights for your unique style
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Start the How Do You Dad Quiz